The main goal of Phase I on-the-ground work is to gain the ability to struggle into healthy relationship, but how do you figure out what that means?  My answer is by way of modelling.  This entails...

For most of my life, my debilitated core was grounded in the core emotion of feeling so deeply betrayed, let down by, and hurt by people that I simply lost the basic potential to like them.   ...

There are a number of ways to define what it means to be in healthy relationship.  There is also plenty of nuance within it where different people and things will share healthy relationship in different...